A Life Beyond Compulsion is not a life of removing triggers, fearing urges, and constant relapses. Instead, it is trusting yourself, dealing with compulsive desires effectively, and remaining mentally free.

In 2020, I was deep in a porn addiction. I tried everything to finally quit porn. But, eventually, I always relapsed...

Over the last couple of days, I've spoken to a couple of guys who have wanted to learn more about the Beyond Compulsion Academy...

On Tuesday night, me and my girlfriend watched the final episode of the latest series of The Gentleman on Netflix - a comedy TV series about gangsters and much more.

He has now lived out the last 17 months of his life on what we call "The Straight Line".

One of our clients, whose nickname is Fish, had tried NoFap countless times. However, just like myself, he had always ended up relapsing eventually.

Imagine you went to a therapist because you were getting bullied and were asked how you felt about it.

He'd always return back to it, despite trying so hard to stop. As such, it was hard for him to make real progress in life.

Yesterday, was my birthday. In the past, this would be associated with fresh beginning with regards to stopping porn.

Our clients are trained on dealing with the addicted part of the mind (APOTM) so that in the exact moment of compulsive desire — they can face their mind and think through their choice rationally.

In the past, I focused on the symptoms of my porn use. Things like feeling drained, being distracted, shame, anxiety, low confidence and the occasional episode of erectile dysfunction. Having solved the porn addiction, I no longer experience these symptoms.

On our weekly check-in this week, one of our BCA clients shared how he has been taking the time to write out his 5-Fact script instead of scrolling on social media.

I used to be out of control. I did not know how to deal with my own compulsive desires and so I ran from my mind...

One of our clients, Joe, has been inside of Beyond Compulsion Academy (BCA) for over a year. Through application of our method, he has transformed his life and his gratitude for his new life radiates in abundance.

The thing I hate about most methods for stopping porn is that most advocate for avoidance and distraction techniques.

Back in my problematic porn use days, I would go on streaks and then eventually relapse. After going a period of time without relapse, I'd think to myself "well I have already messed up now".

15% of men are addicted to pornography and the other 85% are not being honest. If you are anything like I used to be, you are struggling to quit porn, going around in circles. If you don’t want to be a circle person, avoid these:

Have you ever said "I don't want to watch porn" or "I am not going to watch porn". If you have tried to stop watching porn, the chances are you've told yourself something like this before.

Exposure to junkie thinking is all around us. Things like "feed the urge" is plastered over buses to advertise pizzas...

When I used to struggle to stop watching porn, I believed it was hard because of: Past traumas Addictive personality High sex-drive Sexual content everywhere Stress and loneliness