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The Streak Edge Binge Cycle
Back in my problematic porn use days, I would go on streaks and then eventually relapse.
After going a period of time without relapse, I'd think to myself "well I have already messed up now".

Tom Molyneux
2 days ago1 min read


7 NoFap Habits That Keep You Stuck in a Porn Addiction
15% of men are addicted to pornography and the other 85% are
not being honest. If you are anything like I used to be, you are
struggling to quit porn, going around in circles. If you don’t want to be a circle person, avoid these:

Tom Molyneux
Jun 34 min read


This shift in language is critical
Have you ever said "I don't want to watch porn" or "I am not going to watch porn".
If you have tried to stop watching porn, the chances are you've told yourself something like this before.

Tom Molyneux
May 292 min read


Activating the Rational Part of The Mind
Exposure to junkie thinking is all around us.
Things like "feed the urge" is plastered over buses to advertise pizzas...

Tom Molyneux
May 62 min read


What really makes porn addiction hard
When I used to struggle to stop watching porn, I believed it was hard because of:
Past traumas
Addictive personality
High sex-drive
Sexual content everywhere
Stress and loneliness

Tom Molyneux
May 52 min read


Analysis is Overrated in Addiction Recovery
The irony of analysing why analysis is overrated is not lost on me...

Tom Molyneux
May 11 min read


This shift in thinking changes everything
This past week I was on holiday in Portugal with my friends.
Now I am out of the porn addiction - life is dramatically different...

Tom Molyneux
Apr 302 min read


How My Neural Pathways Have Changed Using The Script
Shortly after first learning the BC method, I spoke to Mari about the fear I had surrounding an upcoming holiday...

Tom Molyneux
Apr 232 min read


A diagnosis won't help you
Some guys who struggle with porn will say to me things like "I don't know, maybe I have OCD or ADHD or something?"

Tom Molyneux
Apr 201 min read


Porn Blockers Keep You Stuck
When I struggled with porn addiction I told myself countless times that I couldn't watch it.
Watching porn would result in lower energy, lower confidence, a busy mind, feeling distracted, feeling shame, feeling frustrated with myself.

Tom Molyneux
Apr 171 min read


Porn Addiction Doesn't Have To Be Forever (Slip Ups Don't Happen)
In a lot of porn addiction recovery groups, there is this notion of it being a never ending journey of relapse and streaks...

Tom Molyneux
Apr 151 min read


Managing addiction versus solving addiction
The prospect of attending meetings to talk about the "journey" of overcoming addiction may appeal to some people...

Tom Molyneux
Apr 81 min read


The BCA Mission
In 2020, my goal was to create the world's best online program for helping people live a porn-free life...

Tom Molyneux
Apr 71 min read


What do your relapses mean?
If you have relapsed to porn in the past, it is because of either one of two things...

Tom Molyneux
Apr 61 min read


The Symptom No One Talks About
Once you know exactly how to deal with your own mind in an effective way and you have practiced doing this repeatedly, you begin to feel more in control of yourself again...

Tom Molyneux
Apr 11 min read


The more you know...
You've probably heard the quote "the more you know, the more you realise you don't know"...

Tom Molyneux
Mar 311 min read


It Is A Problem To Solve
When I used to struggle with porn, I had many thoughts around what my problem with porn meant about me...

Tom Molyneux
Mar 302 min read


Why simplicity is required
Yesterday one of our clients shared this awesome post inside of the Beyond Compulsion Academy...

Tom Molyneux
Mar 271 min read


Success no matter what
For years I believed that random things in my life could cause me to relapse...

Tom Molyneux
Mar 251 min read


Problem Diagnosis
Some people that struggle with porn think their problem is...

Tom Molyneux
Mar 211 min read
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