Self-Respect

When you are in a porn addiction, you masturbate to sexual content on a screen. You look at stuff which doesn't align with who you really are.

You get out of control. You don't fully trust yourself. And as such, your self-respect is in the bin.

This morning, I received a message from a client who after 2 months of being inside of the Beyond Compulsion Academy has transformed his life. He now has so much more self respect. I am not surprised.

When you master your own desires, you get to feel in control.

You learn how to experience temporary discomfort and make rational choices.

A lot of people try to build up their self-respect by getting in good shape, earning more money, and having great habits. But, then they still lose control of their own mind and watch porn. I don't think you can ever really respect yourself whilst being out of control - engaging in behaviours you want to stop. This is why inside of BCA we specifically focus on dealing with compulsive desires. Once you master your own mind, you can take a lot of pride in making choices which you are proud of, moment by moment.