Ineffective methods are the problem, not who you are

Tom Molyneux
Feb 2
1 min read

Yesterday, one of our BCA clients shared a short analysis of a YouTube video that claimed to help people "NEVER RELAPSE AGAIN". I commented on his post and he replied sharing how he now knows "it was the method and not us that was the problem."

Comment that says - @Thomas Molyneux Yeah, its crazy looking at this and realizing that it was the method and not us that was the problem. It reminds me of how many videos ive watched like this in the past, just thinking I was helpless to solve the problem because everyone had the same "solution". If the solution is the same for everyone and it supposedly works for a lot of people aka the NoFap people commenting there days. Then why doesn't it work for me? I dont miss those feelings. Now I know it was the method, not me and those people counting there days in the comments were in the hell of addiction too.

When you learn the Beyond Compulsion method, the reason you were unable to stop in the past becomes clear. You realise how gimmicky and contradictory most advice really is. With a new perspective, you can see right through the bullshit and you never need to watch another NoFap or porn addiction recovery video again.

Right now, we are building a community of people who are sick of the nonsense and just want a simple, practical tool to deal with compulsive desires effectively. One day, I would love for this method to become the world's #1 approach towards porn addiction recovery. I don't know how long it will take for that to happen or if it ever will, but I will keep working on this goal for as long as I can breathe. And I know Mari will too.

Once you know it, you can not unlearn it.