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Go Beyond Compulsion™ 

The Beyond Compulsion™ Method uses Rational Emotive Therapy to help clients rewire addicted neural pathways using a personalised, specific script. Having tried everything, Tom came across the Beyond Compulsion™ method in 2023 when interviewing Mari Paulus.

The method has worked for hundreds of clients since 1990, and is now being used to help men all over the world finally quit porn, stay stopped correctly, and feel good about doing so.

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Beyond Deprivation

Acknowledge that you want to engage in your compulsive behaviour and that your choice to do so will never be taken away. 

Learn fact 1 and fact 2 of the script.

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Beyond Deception

Understand that when you choose to engage in your compulsive behaviour, the addicted part of the mind becomes back in control. 

Learn fact 3 of the script.

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Beyond Indecision

Learn fact 4 and fact 5 of the script.

Go beyond script resistance, handle unanswerable questions created by the addicted part of the mind and create your full script on your liberation day call.

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Unlock a new you

Before quitting porn, my potential always felt out of reach. Now I feel:

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  • Confident

  • Proud of who I am

  • In control of myself

  • More connected to people

  • Focused

  • Energetic and full of life

  • Peace of mind

  • Excited for my life

  • Gratitude

  • More compassion for others

  • Mentally Free

  • Integrity

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By going Beyond Compulsion, you can experience these benefits and more too.

What are people saying?

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How does it work?

1. Sign up to our private Beyond Compulsion™ Academy using the link below. Upon signing up, feel free to use an alias and random photo if you do not wish to share your name and a photo of yourself with the rest of our community.

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2. Within 5 minutes of signing up to our program, you will receive a direct message in Skool.com that will include my WhatsApp number. We will set up a private WhatsApp group for just you, me, and Mari Paulus to use to communicate.​

 

​3. Watch the phase 1 videos, take notes and send them to me and Mari Paulus using our private WhatsApp group. You will continue to do this for phase 2 and phase 3, before having your Liberation Day call (a private call to set up your script).

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4. Once you've had your Liberation Day call, you will be ready with your personalised script to stop the behaviour correctly. You will then gain access to phase 4 of the program and will continue to have personalised support via WhatsApp from me and Mari for as long as you stay in the program.

What is the time commitment?

Our clients tend to have successful careers and busy lifestyles, therefore our program is designed to ensure it can be taken in a flexible way meeting the needs of our clients.

 

Beyond Compulsion™ Method Intensive Video Series (Core Program) - 2.5 hours

Liberation Day Call with Tom / Mari - 1.5 hours

Will I be able to stay anonymous?

In short - yes.

A lot of people feel worried that others will find out that they're struggling to quit porn. I felt like that for around 8 years of my life so I know what it is like. Your privacy is very important to us so you can sign up using an alias and there will be no mention of "porn" on your bank statement either.

To confirm, your details will remain private, your WhatsApp number will be kept between me, and Mari only and the name you choose to use upon signing up to the program will only be seen by other private, paying members.

Bonuses for signing up now

Mari's 35 years of addiction recovery experience, combined with my personal experience of trying and failing to quit porn creates the perfect combination to help people finally quit this problem for good.

However, despite having helped clients from all over the world quit porn correctly, this program is still relatively new having only been launched in 2024.

As such, there are HUGE bonuses to signing up in it's early stages, including:

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  • 1-1 WhatsApp support from both me and Mari Paulus for as long as you are a Beyond Compulsion™ Academy member

  • Private Liberation Day Call with me or Mari to set up your personalised script

  • Low introductory price (price increases on April 1st 2025)

How much does it all cost?

The cost of our program is $299 per month. Whilst we recommend joining for a minimum of 3 months to embrace the 1-1 WhatsApp support throughout your full rewiring process, there is absolutely no obligation to stay after your first month.

This means that you can choose to watch all of the videos and then easily cancel your membership straight through the Skool.com platform having only paid a total of $299 to gain a full Beyond Compulsion™ method education.

*Price rises to $349 per month from April 1st 2025.

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