I Once Bet A Mate £20 I Could Quit Porn for 90 Days

Tom Molyneux
Jul 30
1 min read

I once bet a mate £20 that I would go 90 days without any porn or masturbation.

It is safe to say I lost the bet.

That was years ago. Back then, I had very little understanding of addiction. And I definitely did not have a tool to deal with compulsive desires correctly. Therefore, relapsing was inevitable.

With the right strategy, you don't need any accountability at all. And this is true for our clients too.

For example, last night, one guy messaged us for the first time in over 4 weeks. During that time, he didn't need to check in with me or Mari at all because he has a script to change his neural pathways himself.

This is what the Beyond Compulsion Academy is all about - empowering guys to take back control of their own mind, completely for themselves.

Apologies for taking so long to respond, it’s been a busy summer.

I’ve never felt so hopeful over my healing journey. I mean I can literally feel the changes almost physically in my brain. I’m increasingly grossed out by the idea of porn and feeling increasingly energetic and in control and able to deal with a wider range of emotions, etc etc. It’s hard to see the incremental changes in the little moments of rewiring but it’s actually happening and it’s so wonderful to experience! I know I must keep using my script to continue transforming my neural pathways. I can sense where there’s healing and where there’s still desires for what I don’t want deep down. But those are now opportunities, not scary monsters. It’s incredible

Some of our clients are so passionate about the Beyond Compulsion method that they are joining our mission to get this method to more people. Meet Joey - a client who spent 17 years stuck, going round in circles in a porn addiction.

You may have seen Joey on the podcast with me before. If you want to continue to follow his journey and learn more about the Beyond Compulsion method from him too, subscribe to his YouTube channel. His first video is great and you can watch it below.