"I can't quit porn. What is wrong with me?"

Back in my days of living life in a porn addiction, I had many questions: "How long will I be stuck in this?" "Will I ever get out of this cycle?" "What is wrong with me?"

Our thoughts create our feelings and our feelings create our actions. I felt helpless.

I continued to relapse. There were often times when I did not believe escape was possible. At times, I felt anxious and depressed. I felt annoyed at myself for continuing to do the one thing I had kept telling myself I'd stop doing. But, everyone in the world around me continued to focus on the symptoms of the problem. Everyone else was looking at solutions to the challenging emotions instead of actually dealing with the root cause - the inability to deal with compulsive desire correctly. I've come a long way since my days in the porn addiction.

And I'm taking men from all over the world to the exact same place I'm at - complete clarity on what to do at all times.

All of this starts with changing how we think. A thorough education is required.

Once you are inside our program, the first 3 phases are taught by my own mentor - Mari Paulus. Mari has worked in addiction recovery for over 35 years and her expertise in addiction recovery are vital in helping people achieve true mental freedom. This week I received this message from a client who just joined the program last week.

This client has come to understand a lot about his own mind in a very short period of time. He now knows that deep down he was never the real problem, but instead all of his methods had been failing him. A critical part of attaining true mental freedom is being able to easily differentiate between questions from the rational part of the mind which actually have answers... And which questions are from the addicted part of the mind (APOTM) and are unanswerable.

As the APOTM has only one goal and that is to get you to engage in your compulsive behaviour 24/7, chances are that your questions about your compulsions are what we call unanswerable questions (UQ's). They are intentionally designed to get you into feelings of helplessness and deprivation. You can get dragged around like a puppet trying to answer UQ's, or you can take complete control by disengaging from them and answering back with the truth. The truth is that these questions are just another sneaky attempt at getting you to engage in your compulsive behaviour.

And when you have a very specific method (we use a 5-Fact script) for dealing with compulsive desires correctly, you can apply your method to these questions and have 100% certainty at all times, whilst continually rewiring your own brain as you go along.

You don't have to go around in circles feeling helpless. Complete self-control, self-mastery, and mental freedom is possible through the correct understanding of the APOTM! Permanent mental freedom is possible.

*This blog only touches on UQ's briefly. For a full education on how to deal with UQ's and which specific scripts to use to change these specific neural pathways correctly, you can make an application to join the program and we will be in touch.