3 parts in the mind

One of the reasons that I am able to talk so openly about porn addiction is because I understand why I was stuck in the addiction for so long. It was not because there was something wrong with me. It was not because of my particular sexual fetishes. It was not because I was not disciplined enough. It was because there was a part of my mind on a one-way mission to try and get me to relapse. This is of course the addicted part of the mind. There is also the child self, and the rational part of the mind. And if we wish to live our life without fearing relapse, it is so important to learn how to put the rational part of the mind in control. When I work with clients, I never see them as addicts. I never judge. I don't even ask what sort of content they have looked at. It is not relevant to helping them change from here on. All I see is normal people who, like myself, developed addicted neural pathways. We have had similar thought patterns and we want freedom at the highest level.

Freedom in the mind.

We expose the addicted part of the mind, see the tactics, and counter the bullshit with the truth.