0% Shame 100% Strategy

A few weeks ago, I received an email from someone wanting to learn the Beyond Compulsion™ method with me. I taught him Fact 1 and Fact 2 of the script and then he chose to join the full program to work alongside me and Mari to build his full 5-Fact script. I asked him where he was from in the UK and was very surprised! We've now worked with clients from all over the USA, Canada, Argentina, England, Scotland, Wales, Norway, Germany, Austria, Netherlands, Switzerland, Vietnam, India, Nigeria, Australia, and more... And yet, this client lived 15 minutes from me, here in Manchester!

I suggested we do our 1-1 liberation day call together, in-person. And we went ahead and did this yesterday. It was great. Upon meeting with the client yesterday, I was excited to get into the work. This was only the 2nd time I've ran an in-person session (we tend to use Zoom). I flipped open my laptop and had the full Beyond Compulsion method's model on a screen to go through as he asked questions and got crystal clear on what to do to rewire his brain correctly.

We attack. We are proactive. We deal with the addicted part of the mind (APOTM) in the right way by understanding it's every strategy and tactic and outsmarting it by planning everything out ahead of time. The essence of the full model is learning to deal with those inevitable moments of compulsive desire. It is by not acting on the desire, in the right way (embracing it by thinking it through using the script, not using willpower) that we correctly change addicted neural pathways.

In my time running this business, I've learned that it doesn't matter whether the client is in India, Nigeria, Australia, or 15 minutes from my flat - the underlying thought patterns are the same. And therefore, the same process works for everyone. I hear the same kind of Junkie Thoughts (JT's) and the same kind of Unanswerable Questions (UQ's) from every guy I work with.

There is 0 shame in living with addicted neural pathways right now. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with who you are. And you are absolutely not alone. I have been there too.

And these neural pathways can be changed. Fortunately, with the right help, every single thought pattern can be changed and you can live your life completely shame-free. You can live a life where you consistently make choices you are proud of - every moment of every day. But, we do this through strategy and focusing on how to deal with the APOTM effectively, not by just talking about the symptoms of the problem like shame, loneliness, sadness etc. This would be a huge waste of time. It would be like a business just talking about problems, without actually diagnosing the root of the problem and without taking any real action. Strategy is key. Your results are defined by the process you use, not who you intrinsically are.

Permanent mental freedom is possible.