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Do you have to stop watching porn?
Do you feel like you have to stop watching porn? Are you stuck in a cycle of trying to stop and then relapsing? Let's change how you think.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 82 min read


Are you addicted to porn?
Are you addicted to porn? I think this question can be detrimental and so I suggest an alternative perspective.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 72 min read


Urges after drinking alcohol?
I used to relapse after drinking alcohol. Now I know how to deal with any urge.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 63 min read


Who are you doing this for?
When we try to stop a behaviour for someone else, we experience resistance. It's almost as if our choice has been taken away.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 54 min read


The NoFap Paradox
I spent at least 9 years trying to get out of a porn addiction. That time was spent on "NoFap" streaks. Ups and downs. Temporary...

Tom Molyneux
Feb 44 min read


Crossing the line into porn?
Learn how to know what is reasonable versus what is unreasonable. Don't let the addicted part of the mind bully you into thinking you don't.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 33 min read


Are you stressed during your porn addiction?
Life can be stressful, but nothing is more stressful than being in an addiction.

Tom Molyneux
Feb 13 min read


"I am ill anyway, it won't make much difference if I look now"
Unfortunately, I've been ill this week. This is very rare as usually my NoFap superpowers fight off any bugs (just kidding). But in all...

Tom Molyneux
Jan 232 min read


Who needs reasons when you've got porn...
"Choose life. Choose a job. Choose a career. Choose a family. Choose a f*cking big television. Choose washing machines, cars, compact...

Tom Molyneux
Jan 172 min read


Smart V Safe
In this blog, I'll share one of the most interesting questions we received from one of our workshop participants, and how I answered it.

Tom Molyneux
Jan 163 min read


It is impossible to not watch porn
For a long time I struggled with a porn addiction. But, I never gave up trying to overcome it. In 2021, I did not have much money, but...

Tom Molyneux
Jan 143 min read


Wasting Time Watching Porn?
Pornhub track how long visitors use their site for. The average time in 2024 was 9 minutes and 40 seconds. Less than 10 minutes of porn...

Tom Molyneux
Jan 132 min read


Anger During Porn Addiction Recovery
Anger related to various areas of your life or around porn addiction can come up. This is natural and not uncommon.

Tom Molyneux
Jan 113 min read


How I Got Stuck In A Porn Addiction
I got stuck in porn addiction by listening to NoFap advice and using disempowering language. The only way out is by dealing with urges.

Tom Molyneux
Jan 75 min read


10 Tips For a Fresh Start During Your Porn Addiction Recovery
Having spent nearly a decade trying to quit porn in the wrong way, I've learned what does work and what does not work. By reading this...

Tom Molyneux
Jan 36 min read


How to smash your goals in 2025
In September 2019 my first real relationship came to an end. I had been struggling with a porn addiction and things had gotten out of...

Tom Molyneux
Dec 31, 20245 min read


The Real Reason You Watch Porn
What was the reason that you last chose to watch porn? Were you tired? Were you feeling lonely? Were you feeling upset? Did you have a...

Tom Molyneux
Dec 24, 20243 min read


How To Overcome Porn Addiction - Dealing With A Hangover
In the past I would find it really hard to deal with a hangover. I'd feel so tired, uncomfortable and I'd have so much desire! This would...

Tom Molyneux
Dec 21, 20242 min read


Overcoming Porn Addiction - Redefining Success
Get out of the NoFap streak trap and learn to measure success through dealing with urges correctly and rewiring addicted neural pathways.

Tom Molyneux
Dec 19, 20242 min read


How To Go Beyond Porn Addiction? Overcoming Relapse Shame
This blog is perfect if you are feeling terrible after relapsing. It is important to regain control by shifting from shame into guilt.

Tom Molyneux
Dec 18, 20244 min read
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