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0% Shame 100% Strategy
Yesterday I had a 1-1 in-person session with a client.
And we dealt with his problem strategically. I don't focus on what client's have done in the past. I care about helping them stop every behaviour they want to stop, correctly.

Tom Molyneux
Apr 222 min read


How to experience self-trust
Build self-trust by dealing with the addicted part of the mind correctly

Tom Molyneux
Apr 212 min read


Tomorrow, I will start again...
I often used to think to myself that I could just "start again tomorrow" but did this really work?

Tom Molyneux
Apr 172 min read


"I can't quit porn. What is wrong with me?"
I often felt like there was something wrong with me for being unable to overcome my porn addiction correctly.

Tom Molyneux
Apr 162 min read


How to overcome shame during porn addiction recovery
Every time I relapsed, I felt so much shame. I felt like a failure and really stupid.
I would feel like a deflated balloon hiding in the corner after a party...

Tom Molyneux
Apr 142 min read


From "I have to" into "I get to"
Overcoming an addiction is challenging enough, but without the right tools you are on the defence.

Tom Molyneux
Apr 121 min read


Nothing to learn from a relapse
There is nothing to learn from relapsing. Relapsing is not part of recovery. It is part of relapse.

Tom Molyneux
Apr 101 min read


I looked at some sissy stuff
I used to seek sissy captions on Instagram. I was deep in the porn addiction rabbit hole and it destroyed my brain.

Tom Molyneux
Apr 92 min read


From feeling like an idiot to feeling freedom
I used to feel like an idiot all the time. The addicted part of my mind bullied me into relapsing through self-deprecation...

Tom Molyneux
Apr 73 min read


How long does it take to overcome a porn addiction?
You can either stay in this addiction for decades or learn how to change your neural pathways and overcome it now.

Tom Molyneux
Apr 43 min read


The real reason you look at stuff that doesn't align with who you are
Your sexual desires and your addiction are separate issues. If you want to succeed in changing your neural pathways, make this distinction.

Tom Molyneux
Apr 22 min read


NoFap Motivation V Real Freedom
Is motivation during NoFap actually useful? Or is there something missing?

Tom Molyneux
Mar 311 min read


"I'm scared I will relapse again"
When you tell yourself you'll stop doing something but end up doing it anyway, you can start doubting yourself.

Tom Molyneux
Mar 262 min read


"Follow the technique"
Porn addiction is an experience which you have until the neural pathways are correctly changed. Follow the technique and freedom is possible

Tom Molyneux
Mar 252 min read


Elevated Self-Trust
A deeper level of self-trust compounds slowly through dealing with the APOTM and experiencing urges, without acting on them, correctly.

Tom Molyneux
Mar 242 min read


Motivation and Willpower
Willpower doesn't work. It is exhausting and frustrating and most importantly - it does not work.
The path to freedom lives in choice.

Tom Molyneux
Mar 231 min read


Changing how you think changes everything
Change how you think, change how you feel, change how you act. Help is here. You can overcome porn addiction for good.

Tom Molyneux
Mar 171 min read


The Only Path to Winning
Attack is the best form of defence. Chances are you've been using willpower and have always inevitably relapsed until now.

Tom Molyneux
Mar 162 min read


Self-improvement may not be helping you...
Self-improvement may be distracting you from actually overcoming your porn addiction correctly.

Tom Molyneux
Mar 152 min read


The goal of porn addiction recovery
Most people use streaks to manage and control an addiction. It is possible to go way beyond this and put it in the past for good.

Tom Molyneux
Mar 141 min read
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